What if I could show you a proven method of increasing your peace of mind, reducing stress to the point it almost disappears, & increasing the satisfaction in your marriage beyond your wildest dreams? Would you be interested? - Gary Smalley. A great book for those who truly want their lives to change, whether single or married. Gary is very forthright about the beliefs hidden in our hearts that control our lives - sometimes they're so hidden we haven't realised they are there! I was surprised by how certain beliefs were affecting how I lived. What I appreciated about this book was how Gary wasn't just giving the advice, but was also brutally honest about the beliefs that had been in his heart for 60 years, & how they had affected him & his family. How he overcame them is what this book is all about, & he shares it in this book because he wants us to have the same freedom he has found by replacing the beliefs we have hidden with the best beliefs that have been given to us by our Creator - yes, it does mean lots of memory verses from the Bible, but believe me, it's worth it! Gary does suggest various interesting ways to help you with memorising...I've found typing the verses out on different coloured bits of paper, & having them stuck around my room helps me. The reward...a changed heart, & a changed life!