There is a new reality for mothers in the 21st century – it’s a different world with different goals than it was even a generation ago.

As little girls, today’s mums didn’t grow up with ONLY dolls and toy kitchens and princesses and visions of idyllic domesticity and motherhood behind a white picket fence: they were given these but also a little plastic doctor’s bag and a colouring book full of potential careers to choose from. “You can be anything you want, child.”

It’s a message of empowerment and it’s beautiful. But, as many of those young girls grew up, a message that was once meant to convey opportunity has begun to feel like a pressure cooker. What once was “You can have it all” has now become “You need to have it all.” You need to have the perfect job, the perfect husband, the perfect house, the perfect kids, the perfect play dates and craft nights and date nights and DIY Pinterest projects and #nofilter Instagrams.

What does it mean to be a mum in a world like that? Where does vocation fit into all this? What does a holistic idea of self fit in? Many women struggle with the decision to work inside the home or outside the home. How can you maintain a sense of self and motherhood in both decisions?

The reality is we can’t really have it all - sometimes we will have to make choices. This book explores the value and beauty in those constraints. Join Kate Harris, wife, mother and the executive director of The Washington Institute for Faith, Vocation and Culture, as she unpacks the identity questions, the economic realities and the role of the church in your life as you feel compelled to be wonder woman.