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Out of Control

Couples, Conflict and the Capacity for Change

  • Paperback
  • 288 pages
  • Publisher: SPCK Publishing
  • 13.9 x 21.5 x 2.4 cm

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For anyone with a heart to end domestic abuse

Out of Control takes you though the work and findings on the matter

Insightful and engaging, you'll gain a deeper understanding of relationships in crisis

Offering a personal and pastoral mode of support for people affected by domestic violence, Out of Control helps you understand and combat the damage done by abuse.
Anna Hockley

Anna Hockley

Eden Christian Books Specialist

All of us will be familiar with supporting friends, family and colleagues through the ups and downs of relationships. But could some of the more difficult times of argument and conflict be more than general relationship issues? Is there something more sinister going on?

Over the course of a lifetime, 30% of women and 16% of men will be subjected to abuse by a partner, yet so many of us are unsure exactly what constitutes domestic abuse, and wouldn't know how to react if we, or one of our friends or family, found ourselves in a relationship with an abuser.

Natalie Collins is the perfect guide to lead you through this subject, amassing over a decade's experience leading workshops, raising awareness and capturing national media attention in her work against domestic abuse.

Highly readable, invaluably insightful and steeped in theological insight, Natalie starts right from the basics, exploring what domestic abuse is, why it is perpetrated and the impact it has on children and adults. Filled with case studies, including Natalie's own story, this book offers much-needed advice on how we can address domestic abuse, both as individuals and as a church community.

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  • Author

    Natalie Collins

  • Book Format

    Paperback

  • Publisher

    SPCK Publishing

  • Published

    March 2019

  • Weight

    377g

  • Page Count

    288

  • Dimensions

    13.9 x 21.5 x 2.4 cm

  • ISBN

    9780281078905

  • ISBN-10

    0281078904

  • Eden Code

    4826525

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    You need to read this. __This is THE Christian book to buy on domestic violence and abuse,__ and Natalie Collins is the perfect person to write it: she has a Masters qualification on it, she has spent years working with both abused and abusers, and above all she is a survivor of abuse herself. Even though I’ve followed her work for a number of years, I still learnt so much from Out of Control – and it’s especially good at exploring the psyche and motivation behind the abusers as well as uncovering myths about abusers ‘Is it because of their childhood?’ and abused, ‘Why don’t they just leave?’ __Everyone should read this, but especially pastors as a matter of necessity__ – there are still so many harmful ways that abusers groom the community, especially religious communities, and we need to make sure we’re not a part of this. In some ways, it’s not an easy read but it’s also well-written and not as bleak as I feared, because she writes in a clear and engaging way. __Essential reading for churches – highly recommended.__

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